How much time have you wasted in the past year investing energy in people that are not right for you – and then wonder why all your relationships fail or only last a few months?
How much more energy are you going to waste - 🚫 crying about 🚫strategising 🚫exhausting your friends 🚫hoping and praying 🚫projecting About a person who is so clearly NOT meant for you? How often have you projected the stunning person you just met into your long-term fantasy? Are you guilty of imagining that good new date you just went out with on a romantic trip to Italy… or even the look on their face as you walk down the aisle? And this all-too-human habit makes sense. It’s because you are 1000% ready for a relationship. But why is it toxic? In our society, there is so much pressure to settle down at a certain age, fuelled by all the romantic scenarios we’ve been dying to play out since we were children. When you are attracted to someone, you try to make them ‘fit’… without assessing who they ARE. You expend valuable life force energy trying to ‘work it out’ and make this new 'relationship' work - And when things inevitably end, you plummet into a spiral of insecurity and blame yourself. But this doesn’t have to happen if you apply a healthy dose of scepticism when you first meet someone instead of hoping for the best. Watch their behaviour over time. Do they keep small agreements? Do their words align with their actions? Are they laying on the compliments hard and fast really early? When it's time to plan a date, is their calendar full of appointments and excuses?
Yes, they may make you feel amazing. Yes, they may look amazing on your arm. Yes, you may want a relationship so bad and they fit your “type”. BUT! A genuine soul connection doesn’t work like that. Souls recognise each other. It’s as if your hearts link arms… and your energy fields hug each other like kindred spirits. What was hard work in the past becomes easy. Where they were games, there is just now… communication. This ease and grace in falling in love is exactly what you deserve, and I won’t rest until I help you get it! The first part of our journey would be unhooking from your attractions to the past. To that which no longer works. To the WRONG people who’ll never give you what you want. The second, delicious phase is all about tuning your thoughts and magnetism like a fork, so that you pull in that soul that is seeking you back with grace and joy and ease. I know we want more than anything to believe that who we just met is The One.
Still, rather than hoping and being blind to the signs of inconsistencies, your precious energy is better spent upgrading your energy field. Hence, you know yourself deeply - and attract a partner that can match that effortlessly, consistently and over time.
I used to be so guilty of doing this for years… and I would love to help you if you feel stuck let go of someone who doesn't serve your highest heart's desire.